Whether you have been in a lesbian relationship before or this is your first time, being in a new relationship with another woman can be exciting and it can be filled with a lot of uncertainty. Most of the uncertainty tends to surround sex. The fact is that it all comes down to having good communication. Yes, talking about sex can be difficult. It is not something that any of us are ever taught how to do. In fact, as women, we’ve more or less been condition to keep our mouths shut and that is a habit that is hard to break.

Sex Tips for Lesbian Couples

So how do you talk about sex with your new partner when you have no idea where to start? Really, it doesn’t matter where you start as long as you start talking before things take a bad turn.

Keep Sex Exciting

The following are some tips to take into account so things don’t get boring before they even have a chance to get exciting:

  • Sensuous, but not messy, food can be a great addition to the bedroom.
  • Try having sex in different locations. Go for the kitchen, the bathroom, or maybe take it outside if you know you can avoid getting caught.
  • Bring music, flower petals, and candles into the bedroom.
  • Flirt with her by whispering in her ear all of the things that you are going to do to her when you get her in the bedroom. You’ll have her so worked up by the end of the night that she’ll be ready to burst.
  • Try no tot focus too much on the orgasm. Spend time on her entire body and see how long both of you can go without having an orgasm.
  • Experiment with different toys, such as vibrators and dildos. Sex toys can make a boring night fun.
  • Don’t let insecurity get in your way. Letting loose and getting loud will turn her on, so she isn’t going to care about what makes you insecure.
  • Try to take control one night and run the show. Switching up who is the dominant one from night-to-night can keep things interesting.
  • Try not to be predictable. Rather than doing the “I touch you here and you touch me here” routine, try switching it up a little bit.
  • Both of you need to put effort into sex. It’s give and take.

Whether you are new to lesbian sex or you are with a new partner, these tips can help you ease right into your new sex life and keep it interesting.

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