Who doesn’t want to have an orgasm they can remember for the rest of their life? Anyone who says they don’t or they don’t care is probably hiding the fact that their sex life isn’t exactly up to par.
Tantric sex has become rather hot in recent years because it can lead to some of the hottest sex you have had in your life. Imagine having an explosive orgasm that makes that ridiculously difficult day at the office seem like a small pot hole on a 100 mile stretch of highway. It relieves stress and it brings you closer to your partner by prolonging the sex act through the increase of intimacy and potent sexual energy.
Time To Get Tantric
If you have never engaged in Tantra before, then here are five tantric sex tips that will get you and your partner started:
- Create a space for intimacy – The area should be a comfortable one that is relaxed, yet playful. Make sure the area and/or room is cleared of any clutter that can be distracting. Light some candles, surround yourself with cozy fabrics, and softly play music that both of you enjoy.
- Harmonize your breath – This means inhaling your partner’s breath and them doing the same with yours. Straddle your partner and each of you will inhale when the other exhales. Every time you exhale, try to consciously energize your breath so that you are sharing yourself with your partner.
- Make eye contact – Eye contact is essential when making a deep connection. This mean you want to keep your eyes open. Rather than glimpse at your partner once in a while, you will give your partner a collection of glimpses that will reshape how both of you think of each other. You are also witnessing a true act of love.
- Take your time – Foreplay is a must in Tantra. You will want to build at a leisurely pace. By building slowly, a man is better able to control longevity and pique the woman’s arousal. The longer you linger, the more intense the orgasm is going to be when it eventually happens. To ensure you last as long as possible, focus on each other. When your thoughts start to wander, gently move away from the intruding thoughts and focus on your partner and the magic that is happening.
- Take turns – Simply take turns giving and receiving pleasure. For example, you may ask your partner to give you a foot rub for two minutes to then do what your partner wants for two minutes. This is a good opportunity to give your partner feedback and to receive some as well.
If you have always wondered about Tantra and how it can help your sex life, thus improve your relationship, these five tips will give you a good start.
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