So many people get stuck in a rut. It happens to the best of us. Still, that’s no reason to just accept it. If you’re not having good sex, take steps right now to change it. Bad sex doesn’t have to be a fact of life for you. So put in a little effort and you’ll see a positive change in your sexual satisfaction and your relationship.
Tips for Having Good Sex
For many couples, sex loses its luster when other major life events are going on. Having a baby, dealing with a loss in the family, or other big stressors can upset balance in your life and make it difficult to get in the mood. One of the best tips for good sex we can give you is to put it on your calendar. Life is stressful. And if stress affects your libido, unless you make time for sex, you won’t have it. So, put getting frisky on your calendar until you get back in the groove.
Being open to trying new things is another must. If you’re closed-minded or shut off to the possibility of new sexual horizons, you’re not going to see a change. Instead, talk it over with your partner and see if there’s not something you’d both like to try you’ve never done before. Even talking about experimenting can be quite a turn on.
On a similar note, communicating with your partner is important. If you want to have good sex, you need to talk about what you like and what you don’t like. Your partner can’t read your mind. Let him or her in on what feels good to you and you might just see a dramatic improvement in your sex life.
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