When it’s time to get intimate, it’s easy to get caught up “in your head.” That is, you can lose track of the moment and spend the time you should be getting busy thinking. And let me tell you, that’s no fun at all. Today, we’re going to discuss a quick action plan for being 100% totally sexy and committed to the moment: by feeling sexy!
Feeling Sexy is Easier Than You Think
All of us have hangups. It’s just the truth. But if you have serious issues regarding sex, it might be a good idea to seek out professional help. A mere blog post isn’t going to help you get over what ails you. However, if your hangups are in the “normal” range, you can likely address them through the power of positive thinking.
You see, feeling sexy is all about attitude.
You ever heard of that phrase, “fake it till you make it?” I’m not talking about faking orgasms here, because that’s no fun for anybody. But what I am saying is you can put on a faux exterior that exudes confidence, even if you don’t feel that way inside. Walk around appearing confident and pretty soon people are going to start treating you like you actually are confident.
And guess what? Confidence is sexy.
So in a way, it’s a feedback loop: you act confident, people treat you as though you’re confident, you feel sexier, and suddenly you are sexier.
If you’re feeling uninspired in the bedroom because you think you’re unattractive or just not sexy, set yourself out on a course to total sexiness by having confidence in yourself. The feedback you’ll get is certain to make you feel hot and give your partner inspiration to jump in bed with you more frequently. You see? Everybody wins!
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