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Wired for Love

New Harbinger Publications
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Curated by Alexander Institute since 1997.
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The story

Stan Tatkin blends attachment theory and neuroscience into a practical guide for couples, built on the premise that we're wired for connection yet often act against it under stress. He introduces the idea of a couple as a mutually protective team — partners who have each other's backs and learn to soothe each other's nervous systems. It's refreshingly hands-on, with exercises designed to build security in the small everyday moments where relationships are actually made or broken. Best for couples who want to understand the brain-and-body mechanics of closeness, and to become genuinely better partners to each other.

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