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SM 101

Greenery Press (CA)
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Curated by Alexander Institute since 1997.
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The story

Jay Wiseman's classic has introduced generations of newcomers to BDSM with an emphasis that never goes out of style: safety, consent, and knowing what you're doing. Thorough and unsensational, it covers negotiation, technique, and risk with the steady voice of an experienced teacher who takes both the pleasure and the responsibility seriously. Decades on, it remains a foundational reference. Best for the curious beginner who wants a careful, grounded education before exploring kink, and anyone who believes that doing this well starts with doing it knowledgeably and safely.

Complete the experience.

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Will this arrive in discreet packaging?
Yes — all orders ship in plain, unmarked boxes with no product names and no brand logos on the outside. We ship discreetly on every order, automatically.
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