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Gender Queer

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The story

Maia Kobabe's graphic memoir traces eir journey through adolescence and into a nonbinary, asexual identity, rendered with disarming honesty and tenderness. Widely praised as a landmark of the form, it has helped countless readers feel seen and given families a way to understand experiences they hadn't had words for. Gender Queer is also among the most acclaimed and most frequently challenged books in recent American memory — celebrated and contested in equal measure — and we present it for readers to consider for themselves. Best for anyone seeking insight into gender identity through a deeply personal, beautifully drawn story.

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