Massage for Better Sex
Erotic massage is a sensual loving touch will leave you and your partner invigorated and aroused. The power of touch to seduce, tease, pleasure and create mind-blowing sensations leads to sexual satisfaction that will strengthen any relationship with a closer sense of intimacy.
Start with creating an atmosphere with candles, aromatic oils, soft music, and a comfortable place for both the giver and the receiver. Think about incorporating all five senses into the massage, not just the sense of touch. Sights, sounds, smells, and tastes can all be added to make the experience something out of the ordinary.
An erotic massage relaxes the entire body, including the erogenous zones. The word erogenous comes from the Greek eros, meaning love, and the English genous, meaning producing. An erogenous zone is “love producing.” It’s an area of the body that has heightened sensitivity, and which when stimulated may create a sexual response such as relaxation, thoughts of sexual fantasies, sexual arousal and orgasm.
In the program Loving Massage, both giving and receiving a massage are considered sexually stimulating experiences. Certified Sexuality Educator and Sex Coach Dr. Patti Britton believes both the Giver and the Receiver are stimulated by massages that include or concentrate on the erogenous zones. They can open the imagination and possibilities for both participants. Perhaps this is why a common fantasy is to have a masseur or masseuse end their rubdown with sexual activity.
For a couple, there is a heightened arousal to a massage when you decide ahead of time whether or not this will be the case. Massage as foreplay leading to sex can be uniquely stimulating. But a massage where partners have agreed that the massage touch will be the only touch is an exquisite pleasure all its own.
Experimenting with different touches and techniques helps a couple perfect the art of a loving massage. You will move into new levels of both relaxation and stimulation. Don’t miss any opportunity to share loving touch. Practice makes perfect.