Swinging Lovers

Alexander Institute
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The story

Dr. Patti Britton's advanced follow-up to the introductory Swinging film, focused on the practical and emotional work that determines whether the lifestyle actually expands a relationship or strains it past what it can hold across the long run.

The film takes the harder questions seriously: managing jealousy when it shows up, sustaining trust through the conversations that have to happen before and after, the role-play and fantasy work that often connects to the lifestyle, and the practical specifics of bringing a third party or another couple into the established partnership. Real couples speak openly about what works for them and what doesn't.

From the Alexander Institute catalog. Best understood as a sequel to the introductory Swinging volume rather than as a standalone entry point.

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