4-Hand Massage

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The story

A massage workshop built around a less-common idea: two pairs of hands moving in tandem across a single body, with the giver-and-receiver dynamic reframed for three and the attention doubled accordingly.

Dr. Lori Buckley walks through how the choreography actually works — how the two giving partners coordinate their movements without competing, how the receiving partner experiences the doubled attention, and how the practice can sit comfortably within a committed partnership rather than reading as transgressive by default. The focus throughout is on touch as healing and energetic exchange, not on performance or spectacle. Couples wanting to expand their massage practice will find the underlying body-to-body principles useful even when the three-person frame stays theoretical.

An Alexander Institute classic from the Eastern-sex back catalog. Approachable for partners curious about expanding their touch repertoire.

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