Tongue Tied

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Curated by Alexander Institute since 1997.
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The story

Stella Harris tackles the conversations that make or break good sex — desire, boundaries, consent, and the awkward art of asking for what you want. Practical and encouraging, the book gives readers scripts and tools for negotiating everything from a first encounter to a long-term dynamic, with particular sensitivity to kink and exploration. It treats communication as the genuinely sexy, foundational skill it is. Best for anyone who freezes up when it's time to speak their desires aloud, and couples ready to replace guesswork with clear, confident conversation about what they actually want.

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Questions before you buy?

Will this arrive in discreet packaging?
Yes — all orders ship in plain, unmarked boxes with no product names and no brand logos on the outside. We ship discreetly on every order, automatically.
What's your return policy?
Sex toys can't be returned once opened — that's an industry-standard hygiene rule, not specific to us. For defective or damaged items: we'll replace or refund. Email us and we'll handle it.
Can I order anonymously?
Yes — guest checkout is available, no account required. We ship in plain packages with no external branding. The charge on your card statement appears as "Alexander Institute" — the parent company that owns Loving Sex, nothing that identifies the product type.