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Becoming Cliterate

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Curated by Alexander Institute since 1997.
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The story

Psychologist Laurie Mintz names a problem most people feel but few articulate: the orgasm gap between women and men, and the cultural script that quietly treats women's pleasure as optional. With humor and clinical clarity, she puts the clitoris back at the center of the conversation, debunks the myths that keep women under-served, and offers concrete guidance for closing the gap — solo and partnered. It's part manifesto, part practical handbook, and entirely on the side of better, more equal sex. Best for women who want to advocate for their own pleasure, and partners ready to listen.

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Sex toys can't be returned once opened — that's an industry-standard hygiene rule, not specific to us. For defective or damaged items: we'll replace or refund. Email us and we'll handle it.
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