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Sex & Mischief Lace Spreader Bar

Sex & Mischief
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Curated by Alexander Institute since 1997.
Discreet packaging
Data never sold
AASECT-reviewed

The story

A metal spreader bar finished with black lace-etched detailing along its length — restraint hardware that reads more like art-piece than industrial gear. The lace pattern adds visual softness without compromising the bar's structural rigidity.

Black clasps on each end clip cleanly into compatible cuffs, so the bar slots into existing restraint setups rather than requiring its own ecosystem. The metal body holds shape under tension well.

Wipe down with a damp cloth between sessions. Store flat to preserve the lace detailing. Pair with adjustable cuffs for safe wear.

Good for: position restraint, aesthetic-driven kink, partner-led play, modular gear, intermediate users.

OUR EDITORIAL STANDARD

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Questions before you buy?

Will this arrive in discreet packaging?
Yes — all orders ship in plain, unmarked boxes with no product names and no brand logos on the outside. We ship discreetly on every order, automatically.
What's your return policy?
Sex toys can't be returned once opened — that's an industry-standard hygiene rule, not specific to us. For defective or damaged items: we'll replace or refund. Email us and we'll handle it.
Is this product body-safe?
We carry only products that meet our editorial standard: body-safe materials, no phthalates, no BPA, no latex in products marketed for internal use. Our board sets the bar; this product meets it.
How do I clean it?
For non-motorized toys: warm water and mild soap, or a dedicated toy cleaner. For motorized or electronic toys: wipe with a damp cloth and toy cleaner — don't submerge unless the product is rated waterproof. Waterproof rating is noted in the specs section when applicable.
Is this rechargeable?
Check the specs section on this page for charging details. Most modern vibrators and massagers include a USB-C or magnetic charger. Battery-powered products are noted clearly in the Materials & specs accordion above.
Can I order anonymously?
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