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Lux Fetish Solid Gold Expandable Spreader Bar Set w/Detachable Leatherette Cuffs

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The Gold Expandable Spreader Bar from Lux Fetish is a length-adjustable metal bar with detachable leatherette cuffs — extends to spread the wearer's legs or wrists as far as wanted, with the cuffs clipping on and off the bar as needed.

The expandable design lets the same bar work across different scenes and body sizes. Useful for couples curious about spreader-bar restraint with adjustable reach, or for users whose previous fixed-length bar didn't fit their needs.

Gold-finished metal bar, leatherette cuffs. Wipe clean.

Good for: experienced restraint practitioners, partnered play with adjustable positioning, anyone wanting a flexible bar setup.

Will this arrive in discreet packaging?

Yes — all orders ship in plain, unmarked boxes with no product names and no brand logos on the outside. We ship discreetly on every order, automatically.

What's your return policy?

Sex toys can't be returned once opened — that's an industry-standard hygiene rule, not specific to us. For defective or damaged items: we'll replace or refund. Email us and we'll handle it.

Can I order anonymously?

Yes — guest checkout is available, no account required. We ship in plain packages with no external branding. The charge on your card statement appears as "Alexander Institute" — the parent company that owns Loving Sex, nothing that identifies the product type.