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Gender Fluid Thigh Rider Strap On Harness - L-XXL Black

Gender Fluid

The Thigh Rider takes the strap-on category in a different direction by mounting the dildo on the thigh rather than the pelvis

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Curated by Alexander Institute since 1997.
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The story

The Thigh Rider takes the strap-on category in a different direction by mounting the dildo on the thigh rather than the pelvis. The result opens positions traditional harnesses can't match — receiving partners ride at angles standard pegging setups don't reach.

Built for all bodies and gender identities, the padded neoprene-and-polyester construction stays comfortable across longer sessions. Velcro adjusts to fit thigh circumferences from 18 to 34 inches, and the 1.6-inch opening fits most flared-base dildos.

Hand-wash cold water only to preserve the neoprene and stitching; air-dry fully before storage. Pair attached dildos per their own material care instructions. Dildo not included with the harness.

Good for: alternative-position strap-on play, all-body harnesses, and pegging variety.

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How do I clean it?
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