Gender Fluid Sugar Coated Harness - XL-XXXL Raspberry Glitter

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Curated by Alexander Institute since 1997.
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The story

The Gender Fluid Sugar Coated Harness is a stretch metallic chest harness in raspberry glitter — a fashion piece designed to be worn standalone, layered over a top, or used as kink-adjacent styling. Form-fitting elastic construction (40% polyester, 40% rubber, 20% Lurex) lets it fit a wide range of chests without losing structure.

Sized XL-XXXL with a 35-59 inch chest range. Gentle hand wash in cold water only — the Lurex metallic threads don't survive machine cycles, and the rubber blend loses elasticity if it goes through a dryer. Air-dry flat.

Good for: queer-positive styling, body-positive shoppers tired of harness brands that stop at size L, anyone building a kink-adjacent wardrobe rather than a hardcore restraint kit. Designed as fashion, not load-bearing bondage.

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Will this arrive in discreet packaging?
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How do I clean it?
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