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Strap On Me Signature Body Harness - Black XS

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Curated by Alexander Institute since 1997.

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The story

A body-harness reimagined as a fashion piece — Strap-On Me's Signature mixes soft microfiber at the front with sheer tulle at the back, finished with a gold embossed logo and string-cut detailing. Reads more lingerie than gear.

A stretchable silicone ring sits subtly at the front, accepting a dildo of your choice without obvious hardware visible from the outside. The harness functions equally as standalone lingerie or as a strap-on for partner play.

Hand wash with mild detergent. Air dry away from heat. Sized XS for 30.5-33 inch bust, 24-26 inch waist range.

Good for: lingerie-forward harnesses, partner-facing styling, hybrid fashion-kink wear, smaller frames, discreet ring placement.

Will this arrive in discreet packaging?

Yes — all orders ship in plain, unmarked boxes with no product names and no brand logos on the outside. We ship discreetly on every order, automatically.

What's your return policy?

Sex toys can't be returned once opened — that's an industry-standard hygiene rule, not specific to us. For defective or damaged items: we'll replace or refund. Email us and we'll handle it.

Can I order anonymously?

Yes — guest checkout is available, no account required. We ship in plain packages with no external branding. The charge on your card statement appears as "Alexander Institute" — the parent company that owns Loving Sex, nothing that identifies the product type.