Strap On Me Idole Lingerie Harness - Black XL1 / 5

Strap On Me Idole Lingerie Harness - Black XL

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Curated by Alexander Institute since 1997.
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The story

The Strap-On-Me Idole Lingerie Harness in XL is a high-waist brief harness with vintage-inspired cuts — shaping microfiber hugs the body, the defined waist elongates the silhouette, and a discreet stretchable silicone O-ring at the front accepts the dildo of your choice without accessory rings.

Microfiber construction stays comfortable across longer wear than rigging-style harnesses can manage, and the high-waist geometry adds postural support during active scenes. XL fits 31-33 inch waist, 41-45 inch hips, roughly dress size 10.

Good for: harness-curious couples wanting lingerie-aesthetic gear, kinksters who prefer pull-on designs to buckle-and-strap, anyone shopping inclusive sizing in the Strap-On-Me line. Black colorway.

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Will this arrive in discreet packaging?
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Is this product body-safe?
We carry only products that meet our editorial standard: body-safe materials, no phthalates, no BPA, no latex in products marketed for internal use. Our board sets the bar; this product meets it.
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