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Strap On Me Idole Lingerie Harness - Black XS

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Curated by Alexander Institute since 1997.

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The story

The Strap-On-Me Idole in XS is the smallest fit in the brand's vintage-cut high-waist brief harness — dress size 2 territory, with shaping microfiber that hugs petite frames and a defined waist that gives the silhouette structure. The discreet stretchable silicone front ring fits most dildos without accessory hardware.

Pull-on convenience replaces the strap-and-buckle complexity of traditional harnesses, and the microfiber blend stays comfortable across extended scenes. XS fits 25-27 inch waist, 33-37 inch hips.

Good for: petite harness wearers ignored by one-size-fits-most lines, kinksters who like pull-on simplicity, anyone shopping inclusive sizing across the Strap-On-Me Idole range. Black colorway.

Will this arrive in discreet packaging?

Yes — all orders ship in plain, unmarked boxes with no product names and no brand logos on the outside. We ship discreetly on every order, automatically.

What's your return policy?

Sex toys can't be returned once opened — that's an industry-standard hygiene rule, not specific to us. For defective or damaged items: we'll replace or refund. Email us and we'll handle it.

Can I order anonymously?

Yes — guest checkout is available, no account required. We ship in plain packages with no external branding. The charge on your card statement appears as "Alexander Institute" — the parent company that owns Loving Sex, nothing that identifies the product type.