Strap On Me Allure Lingerie Harness - Black XL1 / 5

Strap On Me Allure Lingerie Harness - Black XL

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Curated by Alexander Institute since 1997.
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The story

The Strap-On-Me Allure in XL is the larger-fit version of the brand's minimalist microfiber boxer harness — sleek soft microfiber, high-waist construction that subtly sculpts the body, with a discreet stretchable silicone front ring that accepts most dildos. Sized for 31-33 inch waist, 41-45 inch hips, dress size 10.

The boxer cut is the gender-neutral signature here — closer to underwear than to lingerie or rigging hardware. Elastic waistband adapts to fit movement, and the microfiber blend handles repeated wear and wash cycles without losing shape.

Good for: plus-size minimalist strap-on wearers, gender-fluid harness shoppers, anyone shopping pull-on simplicity at XL sizing. Black colorway.

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Will this arrive in discreet packaging?
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Is this product body-safe?
We carry only products that meet our editorial standard: body-safe materials, no phthalates, no BPA, no latex in products marketed for internal use. Our board sets the bar; this product meets it.
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