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Strap On Me Allure Lingerie Harness - Black XL

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The story

The Strap-On-Me Allure in XL is the larger-fit version of the brand's minimalist microfiber boxer harness — sleek soft microfiber, high-waist construction that subtly sculpts the body, with a discreet stretchable silicone front ring that accepts most dildos. Sized for 31-33 inch waist, 41-45 inch hips, dress size 10.

The boxer cut is the gender-neutral signature here — closer to underwear than to lingerie or rigging hardware. Elastic waistband adapts to fit movement, and the microfiber blend handles repeated wear and wash cycles without losing shape.

Good for: plus-size minimalist strap-on wearers, gender-fluid harness shoppers, anyone shopping pull-on simplicity at XL sizing. Black colorway.

Will this arrive in discreet packaging?

Yes — all orders ship in plain, unmarked boxes with no product names and no brand logos on the outside. We ship discreetly on every order, automatically.

What's your return policy?

Sex toys can't be returned once opened — that's an industry-standard hygiene rule, not specific to us. For defective or damaged items: we'll replace or refund. Email us and we'll handle it.

Can I order anonymously?

Yes — guest checkout is available, no account required. We ship in plain packages with no external branding. The charge on your card statement appears as "Alexander Institute" — the parent company that owns Loving Sex, nothing that identifies the product type.