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Strap On Me Allure Lingerie Harness - Black XS

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The Strap-On-Me Allure in XS is a minimalist boxer-cut harness — soft flexible microfiber, sleek silhouette, high-waist construction that subtly sculpts the body without the structured shaping of the Idole line. A discreet stretchable silicone front ring lets you pair it with most dildos.

The boxer cut is the gender-neutral signature here — closer to underwear than to lingerie or hardware. The elastic waistband adapts to fit movement, and the microfiber blend handles repeated wear and wash cycles without losing shape. XS fits 25-27 inch waist, dress size 2.

Good for: minimalist-aesthetic strap-on wearers, gender-fluid harness shoppers, anyone shopping pull-on simplicity in petite sizing. Black colorway.

Will this arrive in discreet packaging?

Yes — all orders ship in plain, unmarked boxes with no product names and no brand logos on the outside. We ship discreetly on every order, automatically.

What's your return policy?

Sex toys can't be returned once opened — that's an industry-standard hygiene rule, not specific to us. For defective or damaged items: we'll replace or refund. Email us and we'll handle it.

Can I order anonymously?

Yes — guest checkout is available, no account required. We ship in plain packages with no external branding. The charge on your card statement appears as "Alexander Institute" — the parent company that owns Loving Sex, nothing that identifies the product type.