Selina Nguyen

Selina works with individuals and relationships, supporting people to come back home to their bodies, reconnect with desire, navigate relationship challenges, and build lives that feel more authentic and deeply aligned. She has lectured at the University of Sydney, and previously worked as a disability sex educator — part of a long-held commitment to bringing conversations about sexuality out of the shadows. Named one of Fashion Journal's Best Sexologists, she has been featured by ABC, Adore Beauty and Cosmopolitan. She also co-runs Love Club, a queer organisation building connection and community through speed dating, kink workshops and sensory dinner experiences.

Her work has appeared across sexual health organisations, magazines and news platforms, covering the many dimensions of intimacy — from sex toys and anal play to sexual trauma and the complexities of modern relationships. On her Substack, Come Back to Bed, she writes personal essays and cultural reflections on creativity, romance, relationship patterns and the art of wanting: how we love, long for, and connect with one another. Her Instagram extends the same conversations, encouraging people to build richer relationships with themselves, their bodies, and the people they love.

What Selina brings is a clinician's range. She writes the way she practices — warm, specific, unembarrassed — and she is as comfortable with the careful, evidence-grounded piece as with the one that simply says the thing most people avoid saying. For Loving Sex she writes on intimacy, desire, communication, and sexual function: the questions people usually save for a therapist's room, answered by someone who has spent her career in it.