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Sei Mio Spread the Love Ankle Spreader Bar w/Wrist Cuffs - Black

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The story

The Spread the Love Spreader Bar from Sei Mio combines an ankle spreader bar with attached wrist cuffs — the wrists clip to the same bar, so the wearer's arms and legs are held in a defined position together rather than in separate restraint systems.

The bar adjusts in length to fit a range of body sizes. Useful for couples curious about more advanced restraint configurations than separate cuffs, with one piece of hardware doing the work of two.

Metal bar with fabric cuffs. Wipe clean the bar; spot-clean the cuffs.

Good for: experienced restraint practitioners, partnered play with defined positioning, anyone wanting an integrated cuff-and-bar setup.

Will this arrive in discreet packaging?

Yes — all orders ship in plain, unmarked boxes with no product names and no brand logos on the outside. We ship discreetly on every order, automatically.

What's your return policy?

Sex toys can't be returned once opened — that's an industry-standard hygiene rule, not specific to us. For defective or damaged items: we'll replace or refund. Email us and we'll handle it.

Can I order anonymously?

Yes — guest checkout is available, no account required. We ship in plain packages with no external branding. The charge on your card statement appears as "Alexander Institute" — the parent company that owns Loving Sex, nothing that identifies the product type.