What Men Want

What Men Want

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The first volume in the Alexander Institute's What Men Want series — men speaking directly about what they actually want in bed and beyond it, and real-life couples then demonstrating the techniques and dynamics that come up most often in the conversation.

The territory covered is broad: oral sex given and received, dominance and submission dynamics, fantasy and role-play, the appeal of sex outdoors and in unusual locations, the choreography of seduction. The film's underlying premise is that men's wants are specific and articulable rather than mysterious or self-evident, and that asking out loud — and listening to the answer — is the first technique worth learning in a long-term partnership.

From the Alexander Institute catalog. Pairs naturally with the What Women Want companion volume.

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