SoulMates 1: Sexual Secrets of Black Lovers

SoulMates 1: Sexual Secrets of Black Lovers

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The story

Based on the illustrated guide SoulMates: An Illustrated Guide to Black Love, Sex, and Romance, this first volume from the Alexander Institute documents Black couples' sexuality in their own voices and on their own terms — a category Alexander Institute was unusual in centering this directly at the time of its release.

The film moves carefully through seduction, erotic massage, foreplay, sexual positions, oral sex, sex outside the bedroom, and afterplay. Real women and men speak candidly throughout about what their intimate lives actually look like — what they value, what they've learned across their relationships, how they navigate it together. The candor is the point of the project; representation grounds the instruction in lived specifics rather than abstractions.

From the Alexander Institute catalog. Pairs naturally with Volume 2 for users wanting the full progression.

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