101 Masturbation Secrets for Lovers

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The story

Dr. Lori Buckley anchors this Alexander Institute guide to solo pleasure — not just as a private practice but as something partners can share openly, learn from together, and bring into the relationship as part of the ongoing conversation about what works.

The film covers the ground twice: first as a personal skill (what you learn about your own body through deliberate, attentive exploration), then as a relational one (what partners can teach each other when masturbation stops being kept private). G-spot and clitoral techniques get specific attention. So does the male side, including the technical work of building delay and intensity. The framing throughout is sex-positive without being clinical or giggly.

From the Alexander Institute back catalog. A frank, grown-up treatment of a subject most education skips entirely or covers in vague abstractions.

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