Cooking is boring to me if it gets too routine. But my guy is full of surprises, and he can make anything fun. I chuckle thinking about some of the things that turn him on and make him have to reach out and touch me.
One night I was standing in the kitchen peeling potatoes, when I heard Josh come in behind me. I turned around and there he was, grinning and
wearing only his boxers. He told me I looked really good working that peeler and all I could do was laugh. I’m very lucky… because he tells me I look good almost every day. He snuggled up behind me, wrapping his arms around my waist and pulling my backside into his groin. I told him I never get tired of hearing that, and he nuzzled his face into the back of my neck.
He gently rubbed up and down the sides of my body while I struggled to continue peeling the potatoes. He squeezed me tightly into his body and I told him I’d never be able to make dinner if he kept distracting me that way. Snuggling even closer, he whispered that he wouldn’t mind delaying dinner. I wondered what had gotten into him because he’s always hungry and always ready to eat.
I picked up another potato. Josh slid his hands down to my inner thighs. He said he was starved, but not for dinner... all he wanted was me. That sent a tingle through me and I felt flush.
Josh was still holding me around the waist, kissing my earlobe. I leaned back into him, and it was a soothing, sexy feeling. I asked him if he’d kiss the back of my neck… I love how that feels. I felt his warm breath and his soft kisses on my nape and melted back into his body.
He kept kissing my neck while he rubbed my butt and stomach. He slowly pushed my skirt up along my thigh, and when he discovered I wasn’t wearing any panties, his dick went instant-hard! He knelt and kissed my naked cheeks, and I had to lean on the sink for support because he made me weak in the knees. He licked his finger and slid it into my pussy. My body flushed and I flashed hot all over. Believe it or not, I was still trying to peel potatoes, working on auto-pilot.
He asked me what I was thinking about, and I told him I wasn’t thinking about anything but him. He stood up, without his boxers, and placed his knees between my legs. In one smooth move, he parted my legs, pulled me into him and slid his big cock into me. He thrust in and out, and when he hit my spot I had to grab onto the sink with both hands. My body was one with him, pumping in sync with his rhythm.
I hung onto the kitchen counter sticking my butt out toward him so he could plunge even deeper inside me. He held me by the waist, his hands traveling up and down my back as he pushed in. The sensation was incredible. I responded by thrusting back against him even harder. All thoughts of cooking or potatoes had fled my mind!
I leaned further over the sink, absorbing the force of his thrusts. An intense shiver rippled through my body. He pushed my hair to the side and grabbed my shoulders, kissing my neck while plunged deep inside me. I was so turned on and close to a huge orgasm. He wrapped his arms around my waist, pulling me to him. My body trembled. The orgasm hit like a giant wave, crashing through me. Josh’s body stiffened. He clung to me and climaxed at the same time.
We slumped against the sink. Before I could even catch my breath, Josh whispered in my ear that he loved tonight’s menu.
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One thing women definitely want is more kissing. Many women said their partner doesn’t seem to kiss them as much, or as passionately, as when they first met. And they miss it. Making sure that kissing is a vital part of your relationship can lead to new levels of sexual arousal.
“A good kiss can just drive me up the wall, completely.”
“It's in his kiss. For me, absolutely. I want a good kisser.”
“To be kissed a lot, that’s what I want... kissing more than the actual act itself. A lot of women enjoy foreplay more than they enjoy the actual act. Men want to get right to the sex, but I think women like to take it slower.”
“Women want men to take their time in bed. And they want to be asked: what do you like?”
Have you ever asked your partner where she most likes to be kissed? The answer might surprise you, because it’s not necessarily her mouth. Women like to be kissed everywhere: breasts, inner thighs, stomach, back… even fingers and toes. And as you heard in the last story, for some women the back of the neck is a very powerful arousal point. Many say they want their man to remember to kiss their lips, to savor kissing itself, and not go straight for the tongue action. Talk about kissing with your partner, and experiment with it. It can make a big difference in your sex life, and lead to even more pleasure when you move on to her genitals.
Ask yourself this: do you know what your partner likes? Does she like a light touch, or get turned on by more pressure? If you’re not sure how she likes her genitals stimulated, put your hand over hers and have her show you. Some women like a firm touch from beginning to end. Others have a very sensitive clitoris and can only tolerate very delicate stroking. Do you know if she likes direct stimulation? Or prefers circular motions around the clitoris, never touching it directly? Ask her.
Some women feel more pleasure if you put a finger or two inside them while you stroke their clitoris. Does your partner like your fingers moving slowly or faster? Do you know where her G-spot is? Do you know what she likes best when it comes to oral sex? Some women like the feeling of a flat tongue rubbing up and down over their clitoris, and some prefer a rapid, flicking motion, or feeling your tongue probe inside her vagina.
Which position does your lover like best? Face to face, rear entry, standing, sitting, or sideways? Does she prefer slow and deep thrusting or hard rapid strokes? Maybe she likes them all, and it’s a matter of mood. These are things you can only find out by asking her, and by being aware of the messages her body language sends.
“Sometimes I like to seduce my husband. Better me than somebody else, right?”
“I like it when he has an erection in public... I like the way it feels.”
“I get a kick out of surprising my guy with sex in dangerous places. He loves it.”
The element of surprise is a real turn-on for some women. Sometimes, getting amorous in an unexpected location is all it takes.